My thing here (and it might sound petty, but she raised the issue) is along lines off, "Hey, YOU get over it!", for all the reasons mentioned here...I mean, I guess he earned his "Urban Liar" tag here at UF, too, and if she chooses to play the dutiful, loyal wife, well, fine--but don't expect US to be blind to what he did, how he did it, and the truths that were so revealed. And it goes on, no matter what she chooses to see, and how she (selectively) interprets/rationalizes it.
Thanks for the Championships, Urb, and for all the talented young men you brought in who got it done for and with you. But you bailed in a sleazy, weak-willed sort of way, with so little honor that it undid much of what you accomplished in both personal and practical ways--and left us at least as bad as you found us, in a real hole. It left a bad taste, overall, and looking ahead, it wouldn't surprise a lot of us to see a repeat performance, even a pattern of "success-before-breakdown" and eventual trouble-before-exit ahead of trouble and hidden-but-inevitable consequences.
